Worldliness in the Church, Part 1

Conflict in relationships is common. We clash over preferences, passions, and personalities, usually concluding that the immaturity or antagonistic nature of the other person is mostly to blame. This wrong diagnosis leads to wrong solutions as we attempt to change that person or simply avoid them. But the Scriptures explain the real cause of our conflict, and also point to a different cure. The problem isn’t in our circumstances, but in us. When any desire takes the rightful place of God in our heart, it will also govern our relationships. We will view our wants as rights, be ready to fight when those expectations are threatened, and hostility in relationships will be the inevitable result. This is idolatry and the consequences will wreak havoc on our prayer life as well, tempting us to pray with impure motives, or even to avoid prayer altogether. Is conflict ruling in your life, and are your prayers going unanswered? Check your heart for signs of spiritual adultery. Humble yourself before God and draw near to Him, and watch as He draws near to you.